Can't buy me love, can't buy me love, can't buy me love--nononononoooooooo...
The Beatles definitely got the larger picture right. Money can't buy love.
But according to www.realage.com in an article on happiness and age (http://www.realage.com/WellnessCenter/Articles.aspx) the stereotype of getting older, being lonely and unloved, and getting crotchty is just that--a stereotype.
Older people today--or we boomers--are by and large happier and happier as we age, because larger and larger numbers of us are being very attentive to our health. And the connection between good health and happiness has been documented in numerous studies.We certainly have been knocked for being too concerned with self--The SO-CALLED ME Generation--trailing edge Boomers are called.
But what this really means is that Boomers in general have begun to unravel some of the secrets to happiness--that given enough money, decent health care can be purchased.
That massages, and other destressors can be
gotten. That choosing to focus on the good things in one's life even in the worst of circumstances contributes to a happier frame of mind.
And this happier mindset contributes to overall calmer condition, lessening stress hormones, better heart health and a stronger immune system. And given a happier frame of mind, we have more heart to share with the world and with and on behalf of those who are suffering from severe lack.
To wit Bill Moyers Journal reported on PBS tonight (last night, because my post would not upload!!) about the collusion between OSHA (Occupational Safety and Health Administration) under the Bush (mis)administration and companies such as poultry plant owners in 27 states, with huge numbers in SC and NC. Not only has there been tricky reporting by the companies that obscured the outrageous numbers of injuries to workers. But under Bush the key OSHA rules that set critical standards were removed in 2002 as was a column on injury report sheet that previously had collected data on injuries.
UNBELIEVABLE!!
In order to slide around reporting that would have flagged a plant for inspection, employers have forced injured workers to return to the plant directly after surgery--thus avoiding lost work time reports. Because these workers are at the bottom of the labor market--poor, largely immigrant and sometimes undocumented, they are terrified of losing their jobs and are generally economically, politically and health-wise disinfranchized. See that six part story in the Charlotte Observer (http://www.charlotte.com/716/index.html).
And Karl Rove has the nerve--no arrogance--to call Sen Obama arrogant! Beggers the imagination. Read Rove's remark here Rove and his other ARROGANT Bush minions have been the architects of this inhumane administering.So while money can't buy us love and by extension happiness, we can choose our happiness in the small moments of life. One of those acts of happiness is to be grateful for one's blessings and to serve others. Keep a positive attitude, get laughs.
VOTING THE BUMS OUT would make me VERY happy!
Boycott House of Rayford chicken products.
And let's not forget McCain't who thinks is it funny to make a wife-beating joke McCain's joke.
That's a sick idea of love.