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Friday, July 03, 2009

Book Review & Giveaway: "Assisted Loving: True Tales of Double Dating with My Dad"

Shortly after his mother died, journalist Bob Morris noticed with alarm that his 80-year-old dad, Joe, had uncharacterically  begun to look for 'babes'. Bob was mortified.  Then Dad persuaded his middle-aged son to help him find dates.

Bob must navigate this somewhat 'rocky' relationship, learning to see his father and life in a new way. 

The Census Bureau indicates that 80% of widowers will remarry (ah... men you can't live without us women...).  So this scenario is a common one for baby boomer children.

Seeing his intrepid father come to life again helps Morris realize what he was missing in his own life. 

A funny, sweet story with some honest & outrageous insights and descriptions — not just of his dad but of himself.


**Vaboomer has copies to giveaway!  To enter drawing send email to contact@boomermade.com **

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Homeless Vets--Another National Shame

A Century and A Half of Family Vets

My connection to veterens goes back to the Civil War--two great grandfathers died.

My great grandfather on my father's side was in the Spanish American War. One uncle died in WWI. Four uncles, an aunt and a cousin served in WWII. A cousin served in the Korean (sic Conflict) War. My brother and a cousin served in the Vietnam War. Another cousin has served in Iraq. And I am really proud of all of them. And I am a stalwart pacifist. I think there are better ways to solve problems than by killing people. I have no illusions that humans are without aggression and so are not capable of waging war unless dreadfully provoked. Some people just get off on violence.

The first time my infant kid would not submit to being buckled into her car seat and I was weeks short on sleep and miles to go on a pressing deadline, I felt the rage rush down my arm. I had to bite my own hand to keep from hitting out. I am not proud of the impulse, but I understood immediately child abuse when a mom is crazy tired.

I think I could kill if suffciently provoked. but I would never choose to become a killer. I love my country too much to shame myself and it by following this course.


200,000 Homeless Vets on America's Streets

But really folks, whether you approve of war as a solution or not, we have an obligation to care for our vets. And 200,000 homeless vets on the streets of America--well, that is just not acceptable. See the below information about a two-day conference concerning vet homelessness starting in DC tomorrow and Thurs. We can pour billions into making ordinary women and men into soldiers, but we can't care for them when they come home??


200,000 Homeless Veterans on the Streets of America
 
Natl. Convention in Washington, DC Aims to Raise Awareness and Help Thousands of Our Nation’s Heroes; Discuss Obama's Budget Proposals for Homeless Vets

Speakers Include Members of Congress, National Veteran Leaders,
Former and Current Homeless Veterans and Deficit Hawks

The National Conference for Veterans; May 13-14, 2009


WASHINGTON, DC—The National Convention for Veterans, a joint initiative of the Circle of Friends for American Veterans and the Reserve Officers Association, will conduct a two-day convention to advance a comprehensive veterans’ platform to support homeless veterans and veterans returning from combat zones.

About 200,000 men  and women who served in American uniform are on the streets every night and approximately 4,000 troops have been homeless since returning from Iraq and Afghanistan. About 500,000 of the troops who have returned from combat need top professional counseling only available in about one half of VA Medical Centers. Forty-five percent of all homeless veterans are Vietnam veterans.


WHERE:     Reserve Officers Association Building, Ballroom – One Constitution Ave., NE, Washington, DC 20002

WHEN:     Wednesday & Thursday, May 13 & 14, 2009 starting at 9:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. EST.

R.S.V.P:     Media who wish to attend must R.S.V.P to Laura Gross, w: 202-265-5383, c: 202-255-2054, lgross@scottcircle.com. Please include name, media outlet, phone number and e-mail address of each person attending.

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Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Diamond Love: Neil Gets the AFTRA 2009 MusiCares Award of the Year

Neil Diamond Love

We all need that sparkle of diamond love--when it sends out that clear piercing beam of light. Neil Diamond has been doing that for 5 decades. Anyone who has heard Song Sung Blue or Sweet Caroline, knows his somewhat gravely unadorned Brooklyn voice. Singer, songwriter, music producer (and HS  class mate of Barbara Streisand) Diamond http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neil_Diamond was honored for his charitable works at the recent Grammy Awards and at the annual MusiCares awards http://www.grammy.com/MusiCares/ http://www.neildiamond.com/.

As a sister AFTRA member, tho not a singer--except in the bath--I feel honored to be in the same union company with the likes of Diamond and Jennifer Hudson.

Supporting Musicians

What is special about the MusiCares Awards http://www.grammy.com/MusiCares/ is that the funds go to help indigent musicians among other good works. It's hard to think that someone like Diamond might ever need any financial help--and he will never need it. He is one of a handful of artists who owns his owns songs and has his own recording company. But there are thousands of other musicians out there who have few resources and many many Boomer singers and musicians going into older years who need help.

Our contemporary minstrils still live a largely itineret life as they bring us joy and express our deepest feelings for us.It is good that we can receive the love that comes to us through song. And good that a little of that love goes back to the singers and musical artists.


 They Bring Us Musical Joy




 

 

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February 2009

AFTRA Congratulates the 51st Annual GRAMMY Awards Winners and Nominees

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AFTRA member Jennifer Hudson performs "You Pulled Me Through" at the 2009 GRAMMY Awards.
Photo: CBS/NARAS.

The 51st Annual GRAMMY Awards aired February 8 as a live broadcast from the Staples Cemter in Los Angeles and featured AFTRA member artists and performers during the awards show.

We congratulate all of our AFTRA member winners and nominees. We applaud the outstanding performances of all those who showcased their immense talent both on the stage and in rehearsals for the show, including first-time GRAMMY winner and AFTRA member Jennifer Hudson.

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AFTRA members Robert Plant and Alison Krauss entertain the audience with a duet at the 2009 GRAMMY Awards.
Photo: CBS/NARAS.

Special congratulations to AFTRA members Neil Diamond, who was honored as the 2009 MusiCares Person of the Year, and the dynamic duo of Robert Plant and Alison Krauss for their five awards, including Record of the Year, Album of the Year, Best Pop Collaboration with Vocals, Best Country Collaboration with Vocals, and Best Contemporary Folk/Americana Album.

AFTRA members employed in this program include award winners and nominees, royalty artists, hosts, background vocalists, dancers, and stand-in professionals. We salute our AFTRA signatory employer John Cossette Productions, and CBS and the Recording Academy for their continued support of AFTRA members by producing this awards show under an AFTRA contract.

Click here to see a complete list of winners and nominees for the 51st Annual GRAMMY Awards.

About AFTRA
The American Federation of Television and Radio Artists, AFL-CIO, are the people who entertain and inform America. In 32 Locals across the country, AFTRA members work as actors, journalists, dancers, singers, announcers, hosts, comedians, disc jockeys, and other performers across the media industries including television, radio, cable, sound recordings, music videos, commercials, audio books, non-broadcast industrials, interactive games, the Internet, and other digital media. The 70,000 professional performers, broadcasters, and recording artists of AFTRA are working together to protect and improve their jobs, lives, and communities in the 21st century. From new art forms to new technology, AFTRA members embrace change in their work and craft to enhance American culture and society. Visit AFTRA online at www.aftra.com.


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